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🌸 A Soft Start
You’ve probably been praised for pushing through.
For staying late. For “making it happen.”
And maybe, you only allowed yourself to rest when everything else was done—
(which was never.)
But here’s the truth that changes everything:
Rest isn’t something you earn.
It’s something you deserve.
Because you are human. Because you breathe. Because you’re here.
🌀 A Gentle Truth
In systems that overvalue output, rest is treated like a weakness.
But in your system?
Rest is a pillar.
A planned pause. A pattern of wholeness. A rhythm of return.
You don’t rest so you can do more.
You rest because you are worth sustaining.
💡 Try This
Today, make rest your first priority.
Ask:
- What would it look like to plan my day around my energy—not my tasks?
- Where can I build in softness—not as recovery, but as rhythm?
- What am I afraid will happen if I rest more? And is that fear true?
Then offer yourself one act of rest—without apology, without explanation.
It can be 5 minutes. A breath. A step outside.
Let it be yours.
💭 Parting Thought
Rest doesn’t mean you’re falling behind.
It means you’re falling back into alignment.
You were never meant to burn for your brilliance.
You were meant to glow.
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The Systems Cowboy Guide to Living Softly in a Hard World
