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🌸 A Soft Start
There are days when it all flows.
And there are days when even brushing your teeth feels heroic.
But in a world obsessed with “grind,”
we’re taught to see low motivation as a moral failing.
It’s not.
It’s data.
It’s signal.
It’s your system saying: “Something needs tending.”
🌀 A Gentle Truth
Motivation isn’t a switch—it’s a relationship.
And like any relationship, it responds to:
- Safety
- Rhythm
- Meaning
- Rest
- Play
- Belonging
Your motivation doesn’t need to be pushed.
It needs to be understood.
💡 Try This
If motivation feels low right now, pause and ask:
- What feels too heavy?
- What feels unclear?
- Is there something I care about underneath this that needs re-igniting?
Then try this shift:
Instead of “I have to do this”, try “What’s the gentlest possible way I could begin?”
Sometimes, that’s enough to start.
Sometimes, the truest motivation is knowing…
you don’t have to perform to matter.
💭 Parting Thought
You’re not lazy.
You’re alive.
And your system will guide you—
not through guilt,
but through listening.
➡️ Next: Lesson 21: Play Day – Pratice Saying No Without Apology
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The Systems Cowboy Guide to Living Softly in a Hard World
