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🔥 A Soft Start
Your body is not just the vehicle.
It is the vessel.
And when it softens—when your nervous system feels safe—your energy begins to flow like honey through every inch of you.
Most of us have spent years bracing.
Tensing. Holding.
Learning to live in readiness instead of receptivity.
But sacred sexual energy doesn’t thrive in pressure.
It thrives in softness.
So today… we begin with breath.
🌀 A Gentle Truth
Your sexual energy can only flow through what is relaxed enough to receive it.
This is why deep pleasure can’t be rushed.
Why intimacy feels best when your body says yes before your mind does.
Why presence—not performance—is what changes everything.
The soft body is not weak.
It is available.
It is alive.
💡 Try This
Lie down somewhere comfortable. Let your shoulders drop.
Place one hand on your chest and one on your belly.
Breathe gently through your nose.
Let the breath move downward—belly first, then chest.
Now ask:
- Where am I holding tension right now?
- What part of my body is asking for softness?
- What happens when I stop trying to “feel sexy” and just feel… here?
No pressure to perform.
Just permission to soften.
💭 Parting Thought
Your body doesn’t need to be fixed.
It just needs to feel safe enough to open.
Softness isn’t the opposite of strength.
It’s the path to power.
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The Soft Flame
