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🔥 A Soft Start
You’ve likely been taught to chase the peak.
To build energy, then let it go.
To climax, to finish, to move on.
But what if your body could hold that energy?
What if you didn’t rush to release it?
What if you let it build and swirl and expand inside you—
feeding your glow, deepening your magnetism, awakening your creativity?
That’s not withholding.
That’s mastery.
🌀 A Gentle Truth
The more you learn to hold energy,
the more you begin to feel like your own source.
This is the art of edging.
Of slowing down.
Of breathing with the wave instead of being taken under by it.
And in this pause—this stretch of sensation—you awaken a deeper kind of pleasure:
Not just in climax,
but in containment.
💡 Try This
Next time you feel sexual energy rising—either solo or through connection—try holding it.
- Slow your movement.
- Deepen your breath.
- Contract your pelvic floor gently on the inhale, then release.
- Let the energy rise… but don’t chase it.
Just be with it.
Let it swell. Let it hover. Let it stay.
This is how you build inner fire—not by burning out, but by burning within.
💭 Parting Thought
Holding is not about control.
It’s about capacity.
And the more you can hold,
the more your life will begin to reflect that spaciousness, too.
You don’t need to climax to be complete.
Sometimes, the fire is enough.
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The Soft Flame
