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🔥 A Soft Start
Every time you enter a space with someone new,
you’re not just meeting a body.
You’re meeting a field.
An invisible, electric, tender landscape that exists between you.
It holds your energy, your nervous systems, your signals, your intentions.
And it starts forming before words.
Before touch.
Before the first “yes.”
The more aware you become of this field,
the more powerful, grounded, and sovereign your connections will feel.
🌀 A Gentle Truth
You don’t just have chemistry with someone.
You co-create it.
And you don’t have to rush in to find out if there’s something real.
You can pause. Breathe. Feel the temperature of the room between you.
Ask yourself:
- Do I feel pulled? Do I feel pushed?
- What’s mine, and what’s theirs?
- Am I expanding… or bracing?
Because your body already knows.
And the field will always tell you the truth.
💡 Try This
The next time you interact with someone new—or even imagine being intimate with someone—try this practice:
- Close your eyes and bring the person to mind.
- Imagine you’re in the same space. Breathe.
- Let yourself feel the air between you.
- Ask:
What do I feel pulled toward?
What do I feel protective of?
Where is my body saying “yes”… and where is it whispering “not yet?”
This is how you enter the field consciously.
And this is how you begin to shape your relational energy,
not from urgency—but from truth.
💭 Parting Thought
You don’t owe anyone your openness.
It is not a gift to be given lightly.
It is a spell to be cast with clarity.
The field between you and another is sacred.
Let it form slowly.
Let it tell you what it knows.
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