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Lesson 29: Tending the Relationship

This is a practice. A garden. You are its steward.

You don’t have to control this. You just have to keep tending. Keep returning.

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🌿 A Gentle Beginning

You’ve come so far.

Not by force.

But by returning.

Again and again, you’ve chosen softness.

Awareness.

Care.

You’ve looked at what was hard to see.

You’ve held what was hard to hold.

And now?

Now you learn to tend.

This relationship isn’t something to master.

It’s something to love.

To nurture.

To visit often.

Like any garden, it needs presence—not perfection.


💫 Return, Revisit, Rechoose

You don’t need to be “good with money.”

You don’t need to never mess up again.

You just need to come back.

Come back when it feels hard.

Come back when you forget what’s true.

Come back when you’re afraid—and when you’re ready to feel free.

Your power is not in never falling.

It’s in knowing you can return.

Tending is quiet magic.

And you are capable of that kind of care.


🕯 Try This

Ask yourself:

What rituals or rhythms help me stay in relationship with my money?
What simple practice can I return to when things feel overwhelming?
How can I bring beauty, softness, or sovereignty into that rhythm?

Then create your own Tending Practice:

  • A weekly check-in
  • A monthly money date
  • A seasonal re-alignment with your enoughness
  • A ritual to release scarcity and return to trust

It doesn’t need to be fancy. It just needs to be true.


🌙 Parting Thought

You are not here to get it perfect.

You are here to stay in relationship.

To tend.

To water.

To pause.

To begin again.

And in that tending… something beautiful grows.


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